My
Friend Chavo ...
There
are wrestlers who have been brought into my life ...
all have
made an impression ... some more than others ...
Chavo is one of the
latter.
He and
his brother Hector ... what a pair ... what different
personalities ...
both of
them I truly love and respect.
But Chavo
... he is a rebel and thus 'has an attitude' like I
mean 'AN ATTITUDE !!'
So ...
too ... it has been said of me.
For
whatever reason, I have always‘been drawn to him’
and was
always interested in getting to know him.
Hector
was 'much easier to deal with' because he was more
‘happy-go-lucky’
and
always ‘upbeat’ easier ‘to do business with’...
but 'for
me', Chavo was the 'more box office of the two',
though as a team too they were great.
But
again, we know ‘our Creator’ doesn’t make
anyone like a ‘carbon copy’
everyone
is totally unique, totally different ... even close
brothers.
Chavo
is a person 'who will challenge you' ... an ‘in
your face challenge’…
didn’t
I say ATTITUDE.
And oh boy ... if he somehow perceives you are in
anyway 'prejudiced towards him',
or in
anyway slighting him, he is ready to fight.
And Chavo
is 'tough' ... no ‘back down in him’ no way !
In the
ring too ... NO QUIT or BACKDOWN, he is ready to go.
If he was 6 foot 6 inches tall, we'd all have to ask
his permission
to even
come into the dressing room ... that’s how big his
heart is…
Plus he has skills ... as well as heart ... and is
highly intelligent and well-educated,
also a
coach of amateur wrestling.
So,
our relationship/friendship was a ‘challenge too’...
because as I advanced in the business
and
became an ‘owner/booker’ in several of the
regional territories
I would
work with Chavo and book him and he was ‘box office’right
angle was money
and he
always gave it his all in the ring, and had a good
head for finishes and the match.
But when he was ‘pissed off about something’and
ready for a ‘confrontation’
often by
the time I got there, he was really starting to boil
and he
then would ‘make it like personal’ between us
or that
I was ‘against him’or some other deeply personal
thing.
And if
'he caught me off guard', he could ‘really get
under my skin too’ before I knew it
(
or if he was drinking, eventually that deep seated
anger would start coming out
in
little cuts and jabs ... generally just overlooked
because I heard the alcohol talking
--- too
many times he had looked me in the eyes
and we
knew our mutual respect and friendship ... and that
was real )
I
had made the same commitment concerning Chavo
and the
great Mexican athletes in our business … like Jose Lothario for instance,
or even Alex Perez, that I had about the blacks athletes,
that I
WANTED TO UNDERSTAND THEM
and to
build relationships with them that would elevate them
and my business.
Pepper Gomez was a big star in the business when I
started who was good to me
and like
Pepper there were Mexican stars who stayed
predominately in one territory
such as Rickey Romero in Amarillo, or Puerto Rican stars who
stayed predominately in NY.
I hated
the fact that the business was so 'racial',
and that
so often a Puerto Rican (in the NY territories), or a
black wrestler,
or a
Mexican wrestler in the Texas or California
territories was ‘the token one’
so that
if another one was brought in to ‘fill that
demographic’
that
meant the one there was forced out, or relegated to a
lesser role until he just left.
I’ve
even seen some promoters try to ‘pass a Mexican
wrestler off as Cuban’
or a
Puerto Rican off as Mexican ... because they thought
‘Spanish speaking is all the same’
but do
you really think you can fool the people of that
nationality or ethnicity??
But the business was NOT an ‘even playing field',
based upon talent
and by
that, I mean ‘box office appeal’
Even in the early 70’s racism was dominate in
pro-wrestling
as far
as these groups of athletes.
So, as
‘this culture’ had also held so many hostage to
racism,
it had
deeply ingrained them about the very ignorance of
racism, and thus, almost any business
decision
then ... they felt (and often were so correct in
assuming) had a ‘racial tone’ behind it.
I was
one who was changing that ‘in my way’… and my
record in the business speaks to this…
even
though some ignorant people have even labeled me as
racist,
but NOT
those I worked with ‘black, Puerto Rican, or
Mexican’.
Yes…I
studied the demographics of our business…
Ernie Ladd as well as Jim Ross really brought me along in this aspect.
So yes ... if the population had a large Hispanic
percentage, I certainly wanted a Mexican
or if in
NY, preferably it would be more to Puerto Rican,
Florida to Cuban.
But too even more prejudicial was the way black
athletes were treated
and we
had huge demographics in all the areas of black
viewers of our sport
and in
basketball, football, and baseball, the black
athletes were dominant
but in
wrestling, were 'held back', or used as a ‘token’
I
wanted the best athletes, and the ones who could draw
? had box office appeal…
Chavo had it all …
Yes…smaller
than many of the Anglo athletes, but again, not in
heart or fire.
Yes too deeply ingrained by the cultural
prejudice he fought against for recognition.
So, even as he and I got to know each other
that
'cultural impression' would dominate his ‘feelings’
and he
would also ‘label or tag me’ in that same anti-ID
and feel
I was being discriminatory or somehow insulting his
pride or manhood.
And
thus, often when I would get to a show, and have the
whole card to lay out
by the
time I would get to having time with him, he was
really pissed
and
ready to chew my ass out too ... and ‘make it
personal’
And like I said sometimes he would catch me so off
guard
that he
would really get me pissed too
before I
could take that nanosecond to realize with Chavo
I had to
try to figure out ‘what really had him set off’…
because I KNEW I liked him
and
also, even more important, respected him, and that
“I wanted to work with him”
Thus, Chavo and I ‘made it through these situations’without
ever finally
'blowing
up so damn badly that we'd have gone to fist city',
or I’d have fired him ... or both !!
( and at times if Hector
was also on the card, I’d even use Hector
to ‘get him back to reality’)
Now,
this may sound to you like just a bunch of ‘bullshit’
but
racism and its ignorance has done so damn much harm
to people
those
discriminated against (and we know the extremes of
that)
and
those who harbor such ignorance and thus
pass
that anger and hatred on down their own lineage ...
so this is a HUGE issue.
And Chavo’s and my friendship, as well as ‘working
relationship’ as me
being
the owner or the booker of the territory, to survive
and flourish, was HUGE.
And that friendship continues today is so vital and
so real, and means so damn much to me
and I
know to him too … we truly love and respect each
other.
And in spite of all 'our demons', our
self-destructive traits,which we both have,
we are
also joined as brothers-in-Christ !
And
those who know Chavo know he has also fought some ‘substance
abuse problems’
but even
through that he would call me (even after I had left
the business)
and he
would stay in touch, because he knows ‘I care for
him and respect him !’…
and I count Chavo Guerrero as my
friend…
And when
we (Chavo and me) are called home to Heaven’s rest…
there
with Christ…will be NO prejudice…only perfect
love and perfect light.
Cowboy Bill Watts